Advice for children to benefit for a lifetime

Release Time：2015-05-29 12:00:00

1. Ten pieces of advice

【10 pieces of advice from former U.S. President Jefferson to his grandson】：

1. What can be done today will never be delayed until tomorrow.

2. What you can do will never bother others.

3. Never spend unfinished money.

4. Never greedy to buy things you don't need cheaply.

5. Pride is more harmful than hunger and cold.

6. Don't be gluttonous.

7. Only willing to do things well.

8. Don't bother yourself with the impossible.

9. Pay attention to methods and methods in everything.

10. When you are angry, count to ten before talking!

2. Simple maxims

motto

In the new image establishment method, the psychological suggestion method, the appreciation, praise, encouragement, example method, the logic interruption method, the principle adherence method, and the unique method, one method can be combined at the same time, called the "simple motto method."

【Simple maxim】It is to summarize the truth, principles, and conclusions in one sentence, the simpler the better.

Simple maxims are particularly powerful

【Simple maxim】It is to summarize the truth, principles, and conclusions into one sentence, the simpler the better。

——————Simple maxims are particularly powerful.

For example, "go on the green light, stop at the red light", this is a simple motto about traffic safety common sense, five or six-year-old children can recite. It’s not good if you have to be complicated: when crossing the road, don’t go when you see a red light, and go quickly when you see a green light. "Stop red light, go green" is a simple motto. "Fall by yourself and get up by yourself" is also a simple motto. If you say a lot: "It's inevitable for people to fall somersault, and falling somersault is definitely painful. Don't be afraid when it hurts. Get up by yourself, and you will be a good boy when you get up." This is long-winded, bad, and powerless.

3. The code of conduct that will benefit the child throughout his life

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There is a saying in the West to educate children: "If you have a gift, give it half to the children." Many accomplished people have benefited from a few maxims in their lives, one of which is "If you have a gift, give it half to the children."

Another sentence is "Wash your hands before meals".

There is another sentence about politeness: "Say hello to the guest when you come."

It is these very simple rules of life that enable children to understand the basic behavior art and rules of behavior.

Parents should be good at instilling the correct code of conduct into simple maxims in their children. For example: health is glorious. Think about it for others when you encounter something. Use your brains when encountering problems that you won’t. Do your own things by yourself. The more you use your brain, the more you get better. One will care about oneself, and the other will care about others. Invention comes from a brainstorm. Happiness starts with gratitude.

4. Words are half of men

Write good words

I once gave "words are half of a man's appearance" to my son. Since then, my son has paid great attention to writing and has written well. Parents worked so hard to teach their children to write, and at the end they had to give a sentence, which penetrated the children's heart. If it is a boy, you can tell him like this, "The word is half of a man's appearance." With such a simple sentence, the child is deeply impressed. Because it is a common truth for parents and children, children can also accept it.

——Parents should be like this.